Ways to develop the habit of finishing things that you start.
How to Finish What You Start
Are you tired of starting projects and never finishing them?
A half-finished project, a blog post that’s been sitting in drafts for months, or that book you’ve always wanted to write.
It’s easy to get excited about new ideas, but actually finishing things can be a whole different story.
“You don’t have to be extreme, just consistent.” – Unknown
Why Finishing Things Matters
Finishing feels amazing.
There’s a sense of accomplishment that comes with crossing that finish line.
It’s like baking a cake and finally getting to eat it!
But it’s not just about the feel-good factor.
It’s about deciding you’re going to do something and then actually doing it, no matter what.
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It can be tough to finish things—we get excited at the start, but when we get busy or things get hard or boring, our commitment starts wavering.
How to Get Better at Finishing Things?
We need to deepen our commitment.
Commitment is a practice.
It’s not something you either have or don’t have, or that you’ll always struggle with.
You have to practice, develop trust in yourself, learn what works, and bring in what’s needed for the challenges you face.
Tips for Practicing Commitment
Make a Deeper Commitment: If you’re only half committed, it’s easy to give up when things get busy or tough.
To deepen your commitment, understand why you care about the task or project, make promises to yourself and others, and stick to them.
It’s like a parent’s commitment to taking care of their children—there’s no question about it.
Use Accountability and Consequences: Most people don’t like setting consequences, but they can help you stay committed.
For example, you could commit to finishing a course you bought by the end of the month or pledge to clean up the neighborhood park if you don’t meet your deadline.
Similarly, you could promise to donate to a charity you support if you don’t stick to your diet for a week.
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Handling Faltering Commitment
As you deepen your practice of commitment, you’ll notice you’ll falter a lot.
You’ll want to give up, get distracted, or find reasons to delay.
This is normal and part of learning.
But it’s not about being perfect but about practicing and improving.
Don’t Quit When You Falter.
You’ll start, fail, learn, and try again, over and over.
Each time you falter, view it as an opportunity to learn and strengthen your commitment.
Benefits of Finishing Things
Build Confidence: Every completed task is a small win that increases your confidence.
Builds Efficiency: As you get used to completing tasks, you’ll manage them more efficiently.
Improve Focus: When you’re committed to finishing something, it’s easier to ignore distractions and remain focused.
Reduce Stress: Unfinished tasks can weigh on your mind.
Checking items off your to-do list brings a sense of relief and calm.
The Start-Stop Cycle: Why Do We Do It?
We all love a fresh start.
It’s exciting!
But why do we keep hitting the pause button?
Here are a few reasons:
Fear of Failure: What if it’s not perfect? What if people don’t like it?
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Overwhelm: Big projects can seem impossible.
Lack of Motivation: Sometimes, the excitement just dies.
Shiny Object Syndrome: Something new and exciting comes along.
How to Break This Cycle
Start Small: Big projects can be overwhelming.
Break them down into smaller, more manageable steps.
For example, if you want to write a blog post, start by outlining it.
If you want to declutter your house, focus on one room at a time.
Set Deadlines: Having a deadline gives you a sense of urgency.
Treat your projects like appointments.
Schedule time for them in your calendar.
Find Your Why: Why are you doing this project?
What’s your motivation?
Keeping your ‘why’ in mind can help you stay focused.
As a mom, my ‘why’ is often to create a better life for my family.
As a blogger, it’s to connect with others and share my experiences.
Celebrate Small Wins: Every step forward is a win.
Reward yourself for completing tasks.
A little treat or some self-care can go a long way.
Be Kind to Yourself: Nobody’s perfect.
It’s okay to take breaks, or even to change your mind about a project.
The important thing is to keep moving forward.
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Overcoming Challenges
Procrastination: The classic time-waster! Set a timer for focused work and reward yourself with a short break.
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Perfectionism: Aim for progress, not perfection.
Good enough is often good enough.
Lack of Motivation: Remind yourself of your ‘why’ and find supportive friends and family.
As a mom and a blogger, I know firsthand how easy it is to get overwhelmed.
There are always household chores, kids to look after, and blog posts to write.
But by focusing on one task at a time , I’ve managed to finish several projects.
For example, instead of trying to clean the entire house at once, I focus on one room a day.
And instead of stressing about writing the perfect blog post, I start by brainstorming ideas and then gradually build from there.
Finishing things is a skill that can be learned.
It takes practice and patience.
But the rewards are worth it.
“It’s not about being perfect. It’s about effort. And when you implement that effort into your life, every single day, that’s where transformation happens. That’s how change occurs.” – Jillian Michaels
So, pick a project, set a goal, and let’s get started!
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Excellent write-up
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Great points to remember.
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Great post, it really to focus on one thing at a time. Especially when you have a million ideas coming all the time.
Yes.. at any given time our mind is running so many thoughts..its difficult to focus on one.. thanks for reading.
Great motivational post!
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You made some great points! The problem of not finishing things is that we often fail to prioritize what we want resulting in not finishing tasks that we lead us closer to our goals.
Yes i completely agree with you. Thanks for reading my post.